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The survival skill that’s keeping you stuck

  After all the trauma you’ve endured and how much you’ve grown from it, you might start telling yourself “I’ve got this,” when you realise you’re one of the most independent people you know. It seems like confidence on the surface because you’re a strong, capable and independent person. 💪🏻  But what can seem like confidence may actually be the result of your nervous system learning that relying on other people wasn’t safe.  Your brain has adapted because you were…

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How I learned to trust myself again after abuse

  When I hit 38 after the end of another abusive relationship, I had completely lost trust in my own judgement. I’d discovered my core wound of abandonment and rejection and… fuck me, did it hurt. 😞  Even after having done a shitload of healing, coaching and other personal development tools since my early twenties, this wound knocked the wind out of me. 💨  I needed time and space to heal.  A lot of space.  Space to reflect on what…

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How energy work can change your life (Even if you’re skeptical)

  Most people find their way into energy healing the same way they find their way into any kind of personal development – generally through crisis, chaos or exhaustion – and wanting to feel better.    They’re knackered, sick of other people sucking the life out of them, and just feel generally off.    They realise they’ve been feeling this way for weeks, sometimes months, and somehow they find their way to me.    Energy work – whether it’s getting…

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