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Fia

Strategies for healthy boundaries when dealing with victim mindsets

  I was once sat next to an older lady while we both got our nails done.  About five minutes after I sat down to get mine done she starts telling me all about her life. An hour later I knew she’d had a heart attack eight years ago and that’s why she was sweating so much, she has a pacemaker and recently she broke her finger saving a puppy and now can’t feel any pain in that hand –…

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Own it: Why taking responsibility transform your life

  Throughout my career, I’ve met far more people who aren’t willing to take responsibility for what shows up in their life than those who are.  People who love to take a victim stance and blame others for their actions. One of the biggest lessons in life is that you’re always responsible for how you act, no matter how you feel. Nobody can make you feel or do anything – people will do what they do, and you can choose…

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One of the best questions you can ever ask yourself

  I was chatting to a Reiki client the other day about some relationship and work issues she was having.  I asked her a question that I ask a lot of my clients, and ask myself a lot, which I believe is actually one of the best questions you could ever ask yourself. “If I truly loved, honoured, trusted and respected myself, what would I not be putting up with? If I completely loved and respected myself, and prioritised my…

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Healing is a journey, not an event

  I’ve been coaching and doing energy work since 2006, and a common question I get is “how often should I have a session/treatment”? Personal development and clearing your emotional baggage is a lifetime of work. 🙌🏻 It’s an ongoing journey, not just a single point in time. Sure, you can feel significantly better after a single session. 💞 But if you’re really committed to becoming the best version of yourself, then commit to regular sessions. I’ve been working on…

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Shit’s fucked but forgive yourself anyway

  Last year my amazing friend Paris interviewed me for her Shit’s Fucked podcast (love the name!) We delve deep into self forgiveness, limiting beliefs and societal struggles like addiction. 😢 It was a fun and informative chat so I thought it was worth a reshare! Check it out on YouTube here:   As always, if you want a guide on your journey, drop me a message and let’s chat about how coaching and/or energy work can help. Plus come over and join my free group…

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Do you feel broken?

  I love this quote by Ernest Hemingway; “We are all broken. That’s how the light gets in.” Reminds me of a blog I wrote on kintsukuroi, a Japanese technique where they take broken items and piece them back together with gold, the idea being that we are more beautiful for having been broken. ❤️‍🩹  The most amazing people I’ve ever met are those who truly know what it is to feel broken, and to learn, heal and grow in…

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