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Kindness

Never underestimate even your shortest interactions with a stranger

In around 2016, I attended a volunteering day at the RUAH homeless centre in Northbridge, where I gave Reiki treatments to the centre’s patrons, alongside a few other volunteers.  I used to work at RUAH Mental Health for a few years and they’re an amazing organisation. It was really good to give back to clients in a volunteering capacity using energy work. 🙌🏻 During one of the breaks I sat on the sofa next to a guy who I discovered…

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Be responsible for your energy: It’s louder than your words

  In a book called “A Stroke of Insight”, Dr Jill Bolte Taylor talks about how she realised, as a Doctor, that her body was suffering a stroke, and knew exactly what steps would happen in her body, witnessing it all happen from within herself. She talks about how while she was in hospital being looked after by nurses, she was totally aware of the energy they were bringing into the room. While she wasn’t able to see them or…

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10 Tips to protect yourself from silly season stress

  Hey legend,   Today as I write this, we are 20 days away from Christmas day.🎄    Christmas can be such a triggering time of year for many people – those who are estranged from their families, those remembering loved ones who’ve passed away, those unable to see their kids, the homeless, the addicted, the incarcerated… and many more.   Loneliness and financial poverty can increase stress and exacerbate mental health issues. 🥺   The Christmas period can also…

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10 Signs you’re being manipulated

  (It’s the subtle shit that steals your power) Manipulation isn’t always the obvious, movie-villain stuff. 🦹  Sometimes it’s soft, sneaky, and served with a side of “but I’m only saying this because I  love you babe.” If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation feeling confused, guilty, or like your brain got fucked over by someone who swears they “did nothing wrong”… I totally know how that feels. 🥺 You’ve probably been manipulated, which is hard to swallow if…

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What happens when you finally do the work on yourself

  REAL healing – clearing your past baggage, challenging the limiting beliefs that keep you stuck, and actually learning to love yourself – will completely change your life. 🤩 Not just on a surface level, but deep in your nervous system, your relationships, your self-worth, and your peace. It’s not pretty. It’s not an instant, overnight fix. It’s a lifetime of work.. but fuck, it’s worth it. CLEARING YOUR PAST BAGGAGE Every single one of us carries emotional baggage –…

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Stop fawning, start yawning: How to break the cycle of people-pleasing

I recently posted this reel on my Coach Carly page and Sue commented “more about the fawning experiences please, so here we go! In the past, when people used to talk about living in survival mode, they would refer to “fight, flight and freeze” modes. Fight, flight and freeze refers to well-known stress responses that occur when the body senses it’s in danger, prompting a release of hormones to either help you fight or run away to essentially save your…

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