I often hear my clients say they’re “confused” about whatever situation it is that they’re struggling with at the time. 😵💫 My answer is always the same. I honestly don’t believe in “confusion” – not when it comes to relationships anyway, which is most often when this word comes up in conversation. I believe “confusion” is more of a cop-out, a bullshit excuse you tell yourself when you don’t want to confront the truth that your intuition is showing…
I was listening to a podcast last week and the person being interviewed was sharing their story of overcoming a challenge. She said “if I had listened to me, it wouldn’t have happened.” Which situations can you say that about in your life? Where you ignored your gut feeling and ignored your intuition, only to be kicked in the arse by it later? I know I can reflect on many such times. If I had listened to me, I wouldn’t…
I was talking to a coaching client the other day about The Hero’s Journey. The Hero’s Journey is a map of transformation, where you can take a difficult experience you’ve gone through in the past and see the map from struggle to transformation, and everything in between. The original story of the Hero’s Journey was told by Joseph Campbell in his book “The Hero With a Thousand Faces” and it starts with a ‘call to adventure’ – a longing from…