coaching – Coach Carly

Your energy field is starving for self-love

I do a lot of energy treatments every week, seeing anywhere between 1-40 people across 1:1 in person treatments, distant healings and group healings, and you know what the common theme is that I find? A lack of self-love. 💔 After more than two decades working in energy healing, teaching Reiki and coaching clients through trauma-informed transformation, treating thousands of people both in person and remotely, I’ve developed a very clear pattern-recognition muscle. Energy fields don’t lie. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Long…

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When everything was always a drama: How toxic relationships turn emergencies into punishment

As I write this, I’m mid-air flying to London for an emergency trip back to the UK. ✈️ Cam was there with me when I got some concerning news and he was so amazing, nothing but supportive. 🥰 It wasn’t even a thought that I had to ask for “permission” to book a flight home even though it means all our Christmas plans go out the window. I had a moment where I thought what this would have been…

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When love leaves you broke: How financial abuse nearly cost me everything

“Have you ever considered bankruptcy?” 🧐 My stomach dropped when she suggested that to me. I was having a chat with My Budget, exploring options to get me out of the hole I’d gotten myself into. 🪏 🕳️ I was sitting in my newly built house, not being able to afford toilet roll. No landscaping, no blinds, and concrete floors after living there for three years. How did I let this happen? 🥺 I’d spent almost 8 years at…

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Feeling like dog’s balls? Here’s your permission slip to stop “BEING STRONG”

I was chatting to a friend the other day who was really in struggle town that day and for the previous few days. Nothing had seemed to be going right with her health, biz, money, relationship… anything really. She was giving herself shit because she knows all these amazing coaching and healing tools to be able to snap herself out of a funk… but sometimes this leads to spiritual bypassing when what we really need is to just FEEL…

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Something I wish I knew before healing❤️‍🩹

I used to think healing meant peace. That once I left the chaos behind… the toxic relationships, the drama, the constant overthinking.. I’d finally be free. I thought it would feel calm, light, and effortless. Some days, it absolutely does. 🥰 You wake up and feel like your heart has finally unclenched. You’re grounded. Grateful. You can breathe again. But sometimes, out of nowhere… bam. A song, a smell, a memory… suddenly you’re right back there, feeling it all…

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Make 2026 your best year yet

Are we seriously in November already? I feel like it was January last week! 😳 Cast your mind back to the start of the year… did you set any goals? How many of them have you achieved? Is there anything you could have done differently? 🧐 This is always a great time of year to reflect on the year that’s finishing up and start prepping for the year ahead. Which is why I have a special freebie for you…

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