Recently I posted a story about the four relationships I’ve had in my life that were abusive in some way, and unhealthy in many ways. 
It was called “Coercive Control: The Frog That Slowly Boils To Death”. 
I’ve had a few emails from women since then telling me they’ve been wanting to leave their relationship for a while, that they need to get out but they just don’t know how. 
They’re a shell…
#reflection I’m so grateful to myself. Grateful I worked so hard at working on building my sense of self worth, self love and self esteem after I let partners who didn’t deserve my love tear it to shreds. Grateful I kept building my self love when I met Cam because I felt panicky letting his amazing kind of love in. 
I didn’t/couldn’t trust it at first. After a history of challenging relationships where I was let down…