Only YOU have to like you. 
So many of us spend too much time, energy and wasted thoughts worrying about what others think of us. We also tend to operate on what we assume they think of us instead of what’s actually true. One of my favourite quotes is: “We’re all living life based on a perception, of a perception, of what we think other people think of us” 
What’s the fucking point in expending all this…
We have a tendency to put rose coloured glasses on many things in life – including the past. 
It’s easy to look back on past situations that weren’t good for us and only focus on the good things about them. Looking back at the crazy social life you had in your younger years and remembering all the fun times – forgetting how it made you unreliable at work because of sick days, abusing your body through drugs and…
I was listening to my coach Breanna May’s podcast the other day (shoutout to Bre) and she was talking about what happens when people are stuck. She quoted Tony Robbins, who said “the quality of your life is determined by the quality of the questions you ask yourself”. This is soooo true. One of my all time favourite questions to ask my clients when they’re stuck on literally anything is: “if you 100% loved, honoured, trusted and respected…
I’ve been coaching and doing energy work since 2006, and a common question I get is “how often should I have a session/treatment”? Personal development and clearing your emotional baggage is a lifetime of work. 
It’s an ongoing journey, not just a single point in time. Sure, you can feel significantly better after a single session. 
But if you’re really committed to becoming the best version of yourself, then commit to regular sessions. I’ve been working on…
Most of us in life experience at least one relationship that becomes unhealthy for us. I’ve had my share of long term relationships that were abusive and codependent where I ended up as a shell of who I was. 
Leaving is hard because you’ve lost all confidence in who you are as a person. Abusive people show traits of narcissism and usually have attachment issues from childhood which tend to create a toxic playground and codependency/trauma bonding in…
When I coach my clients around relationship issues, I find a really good question to ask is whether they’d be happy if their kid (or sibling or someone else they love) was in a relationship similar to their own. 
It’s a confronting question and one that generates an immediate response. We can fart-arse around any other question and smooth things over in our minds about our own relationship…. but if you took that same kind of…
